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I could not honestly bring myself to write this letter. Maybe, a part of me is still so desperately clinging to the hope that the magic moment of truth will come. That you will stop fighting this. Or maybe, it is just really me who fell in love and this whole thing is all in my head.
My God, there are so many things I feel but for the first time in my life, I am having trouble articulating my feelings. This moment has been brewing for months, I keep saying to myself and to everybody that I was done. But I guess I have just invested too much of myself in what i thought to have been us.
Thank you for everything. No amount of love and gratitude could even describe how I am so blessed to have met you in my life. In your detachment, you have empowered me to be a stronger, better version of myself. You inspired me to stand up and climb to build myself back up brick by brick after I was so broken.
I was healing when I found you, and because you held my hand as I was fixing myself, I have gotten used to you being there for me. Maybe you’re right, maybe this is not love, at least not the kind of love that left a permanent scar and wound in our hearts but that does not mean that it is not love nevertheless.
Thank you for being my best friend, my partner, my rock, my lover and my companion. Thank you for sharing your world to me. It took us a long time to get here to this point and it was such an honor to have witnessed you open up more and grow.
Thank you for helping me heal and having my best interests at heart. I know I am not the one for you. I am finally slowly accepting this fact as everyday comes. I am honestly so heartbroken because we could have been beautiful, i know. Empashis on could have been.
Sometimes I hate her so much for breaking you because you have so much that you can give. So much love, encouragement and happiness that we could have shared together but you know, if I was supposed to be your person then you would have been sure about me.
Thank you for letting me love you and for loving me back in your own way. Sometimes I felt it too. One day, I hope that you find someone who will make you brave enough again to open your heart and let someone fully love you. I get it, that is not what you want right now and so I must say goodbye.
Goodbye baby, you know how much I love you, you know how much this breaks my heart. But I know you can’t, and I cannot force you. I love you, damn it, it beats the shit out of me but I do, but I love myself more.
I deserve someone who will love me the same intensity as I love them because I will be solid and no matter what I will keep fighting for it to work as long as I am not the only one fighting. I am giving you up, for my sanity, for my well-being and for my happiness. I hope you are proud that I am finally deciding to do this by myself and for me.
I don’t know what the future will hold for us, but you are one of those people that I will never forget for the rest of my life. Thank you for always pushing me to grow, for believing that I am capable, for treating me as an equal and most of all for truly accepting who I am, warts and all.
I hope you stay happy and finally realize one day how beautiful of a person you are. I hope you learn to love yourself all parts of you the light and the dark, the way I saw you and the way I did, if possible even more. Goodbye my love.